How to Use a Double Ended Dildo for Partner Play

Quick answer

Start with plenty of lubricant, choose a comfortable position where both partners control the toy, and communicate openly to adjust depth and angle.

Step-by-step guide

1. 1. Prepare your toy and supplies: Wash the double ended dildo with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Have a water-based lubricant ready. Avoid silicone lube with silicone toys unless confirmed safe. Check the toy's material to choose the right lube; silicone toys need water-based lube.
2. 2. Apply lubricant generously: Coat both ends of the dildo and the areas of insertion. Reapply as needed during play to reduce friction and increase comfort. A common mistake is using too little lube; apply more than you think you need.
3. 3. Choose a position that allows mutual control: Lie facing each other, either side-by-side or with one partner on top. Each partner holds one end and guides it to their own body. Avoid positions where only one person can move. Positions where both partners have a hand on the toy give better control and feedback.
4. 4. Start slow and communicate: Insert the ends slowly, one at a time. Pause after each insertion to let both partners adjust. Talk about depth, angle, and speed before moving faster. If something feels off, stop and adjust; never force the toy deeper or faster.
5. 5. Experiment with rhythm and angle: Once both partners are comfortable, try rocking or thrusting together. Vary the angle by bending the toy slightly to target different spots. A flexible dildo lets you find new angles without changing positions.
6. 6. Clean after use: Wash the dildo thoroughly with warm water and toy cleaner or mild soap. Dry and store in a clean, dry place away from extreme heat. Proper cleaning prevents bacterial buildup and extends the toy's life.

Product facts

• Double Ended Whammy Dildo: The Double Ended Whammy Dildo is 17 inches long and flexible, allowing you to bend it into various shapes. This flexibility makes it ideal for partner play where you need to adjust the angle or distance between bodies.

  

• Colours Double Pleasures 12in Double Dildo: The Colours Double Pleasures 12in Double Dildo is made of soft, flexible silicone with realistic heads and veins. The realistic texture adds extra sensation, and the silicone material is easy to clean and compatible with all lubricants.