How to Use a Kissing Clitoral Stimulator With Thrusting
By Lovers | Published: 2026-11-01
Category: How-to Guides
Learn how to set up, position, and combine the kissing and thrusting ends of a dual oral stimulator for comfortable, layered pleasure.
Quick answer
Start with the kissing end alone on the clitoris at the lowest speed, then add the thrusting end only after you know how each sensation feels. Keep the kissing mouth lightly sealed rather than pressed hard, and switch patterns before increasing speed.
Why the two ends need separate warm-ups
A dual stimulator asks your body to process two distinct sensations at once: a licking, flickering mouth and a thrusting shaft. Jumping straight to both at high intensity makes it harder to tell which part feels good and which part is too much. Treat the first session as a test drive for each end separately, then combine them.
The Lickgasm Magic Kiss has 4 speeds and 6 patterns on its kissing mouth, which gives you a lot of combinations to explore. That range is useful, but it also means you should change one variable at a time: pattern first, then speed.
Positions that make the kissing mouth easier to keep in place
The kissing mouth works best when it can rest against the clitoris without you gripping the toy tightly. Side-lying with a pillow between your knees, or reclining with knees bent and feet flat, gives the toy a stable base and keeps your hand relaxed. If you use the thrusting end internally at the same time, a semi-reclined position with a pillow under the hips usually gives the best angle.
Avoid positions that require you to hold the toy in the air for a long time. Arm fatigue leads to inconsistent pressure, which is the most common reason the kissing sensation starts to feel numb or irritating.
When to use each end on its own
The kissing end is not only for the clitoris. The catalog describes it as usable against any erogenous zone, including nipples and the anal area, so it can serve as a warm-up before internal play. The thrusting end is better saved for when you are already aroused, because its motion is more intense and less forgiving if you are not relaxed.
If you are new to thrusting toys, use the kissing end first for several minutes, then introduce the thrusting end at its lowest setting. If you feel any pinching or dryness, stop and add more water-based lubricant before continuing.
Step-by-step: using a kissing clitoral stimulator with thrusting
- Charge and clean before the first use: Fully charge the toy and wash the parts that will contact your body with warm water and a toy cleaner, then dry them. Check the charging port cover is sealed before any contact with liquid. Skipping the charge check is the most common reason a first session ends early.
- Apply lubricant to the kissing mouth and yourself: Use a water-based lubricant on the outer rim of the kissing mouth and on the area you plan to stimulate. Start with a small amount and add more if the seal feels draggy rather than soft. Silicone-based lubricant can degrade soft toy materials, so check the toy's material guidance first.
- Try the kissing end alone at the lowest speed: Place the mouth lightly over the clitoris without pressing hard. Cycle through the 6 patterns at the lowest speed before increasing to a higher speed. Give each pattern about 30 seconds. If the sensation feels sharp or numb, reduce pressure rather than increasing speed.
- Add the thrusting end only after the kissing end feels comfortable: With the kissing mouth still in place, turn on the thrusting end at its lowest setting and bring it to the vaginal opening or another external area. Let your body adjust before inserting or increasing intensity. Stop and reapply lubricant if you feel any friction or pinching at the point of entry.
- Adjust one setting at a time: Change either the kissing pattern or the thrusting speed, not both at once. Keep a mental note of the combination that feels best so you can return to it quickly. The best combination is often a mid-range pattern with a low thrusting speed, not the highest settings on both.
- Clean and dry the toy after use: Wash the toy with warm water and toy cleaner, paying attention to the ridges around the kissing mouth. Dry it fully before storing it away from other toys. Residue left in the kissing mouth can affect the next session's seal and hygiene.
Product facts that affect how you use it
- Lickgasm Magic Kiss Kissing Clitoral Stimulator with Thrusting Vibrator: The kissing mouth has 4 speeds and 6 patterns, and the toy has two ends for dual stimulation. You can fine-tune the licking sensation independently of the thrusting end, so start with one end and add the other once you know your preferred pattern.
Lickgasm Magic Kiss Kissing Clitoral Stimulator with Thrusting Vibrator
